Help: How can i overcome being sooo obsessed with my husband

[Viktoria]

hi my name is viktoria, im new here and i just need someplace where i can pour out my grievances.
im married and already have kids...my life ryt now revolves with my husband...he is my source of life...
whatever he does it affects the whole of me...and so ryt now my life is a total mess...i really dont know how i can overcome this..i really wanted to change and focus on things like my kids, my career but this kind of feeling doesnt seem to stop..am so unstable ryt now...one minute am focused on my job the next minute am thinking of what he's doing in the office...have this fear that he might be flirting with other girls...he's so cool..fun to be with...but when he's with me i dont feel he's happy..i feel like he's just seeing me..and not feeling me...i feel so incapable and not worthy for his wife...
i always feel his friends are better off than me and i fall short of his expectations..am trying hard to impress him but i always end up a loser ..ryt now am suffering from anxiety attacks... i need advice... am such a loser...

[zohan]

hey cheer up.....ive been through a lot of hardships.im born with a twin sis, her name was misery.and sometimes she still comes to visit me sometimes.

i dont think you get half of what ive been through, i know life is tough.specially relationships. husbands,bf.bff,family and so on.but i guess, you need to find yourself first before you could fix stuff thats  going on outside our ownself.base on your msg.,i can feel that you love your husband so much.which is not bad,cause we are expected to feel and give that kind of affection to  them....

im running out of words....but please...cheer up ok.  your children needs you. ifyou want someone you could talk to, email me tiny_ubogam@yahoo.com 

[beng jordan]

hi, I read your post & just couldn't help to reply.....

though I know that I am not in any position to give advise (bec. I am into a more complicated situation, ha!ha! ), yet I would like to share some thoughts.

feel good.... feel better, that's one thing that can help you out at this point, how can you make somebody happy if you are unsure yourself and ur emotion. 

all of us has our own worth..... don't think that you are  much less than others, but show them the best that you've got!

as long as you keep on loving, you shouldn't fear.... if things don't end up as the way u expect it.... then it was never ur fault, because u've done ur part and ur best.

one thing more, find time to think of urself..... never let lose of ur own identity and self esteem!

stand high and strong!  fight and win the battle.... live life's imperfections.... learn from it, and lead towards creating a new life if you need so.

find happiness and peace within you!

am really wishing u the best.

SMILE! ano ka bah! GO GIRL!!!! ......

BTW, am 8 hours online Monday to Friday.....  if you feel bored or anything, just buzz me, my YM ID is available in my profile.

you are never a loser....... simply ur name speaks of ur success VIKTORIA!

[Viktoria]

Hi tiny, beng! thanks guys for all your advice. I truly appreciate it. i really needed this to help jell things. I knew what to do but i guess i needed to hear it from someone else. Well, have a great day guyz! Thanks sooo much....

[zohan]

your always welcome po....

smiles for ya....

[SoyTee]

usapang girls talk pala d2 

[spiidey]

hi beng! i think i met you befor already here in hongkong. you were with vip jong during the independence day last year. ikaw ba yun? ntandaan ko kase name mo. are you the girlfriend? dyahe kame tanungin siya noon

[beng jordan]

 ((i))Hi there Spidey.... yeah I was there in HK last year.... and  probably we've met nga. girlfriend?!! ha!ha!ha!   intriga yan!    I'm a swashbuckler of life --- also doing events, theater, loves adventure, namamasyal etc...etc... kaya ako napadpad dyan!

.... nice here in PHK ha! Fun!.... and I guess I'm getting my first baptism of fire coming from you...ha!ha!

[SoyTee]

aha!!!!

ehem

 


hello mam beng 

padaan lang pow

[beng jordan]

  Hi yah there SoyTee!

salamat sa pagbati, salamat sa pag daan!

great day  ahead of you guys!

[Don Xiexie]

usapang girls talk pala d2 

interesting pa naman sana di ba aydowl?